Thanks to both of you. The weight is from neurontin and not being able to move around a lot. I also have a bad habit of not eating to break. I like the idea of staying at the lake. I love to swim and though I have been ordered not to do crawl, I can still swim. I can bike also but it bothers my back. I need to get interested in something. I was thinking about moving closer to son in a few years. I so want my family around me. I have stayed in bed today. Unwise as I never sleep well at night but comfortable just the same. I am worried about money so much and yet I just ordered direct TV in hopes that I will spend more time downstairs with spouse. I have lost my glasses quite well and need to get new ones. I have many books to read. I think that will be a first step, ordering glasses.