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Originally Posted by WastingAsparagus
Also you bring a good point up in the thread, which is: why the **** don't people march for mentally ill people!?
And that is a good question in and of itself.
It shouldn't have to be compared with systemic racism.
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I think it is fine to compare things as long as you are also willing to see and honor what is unique. Comparison of two things to see what is metaphorically similar does not discount either issue. An issue can be relatively more or less important to various people. Relativity of perspective is crucial to evolution of thought and creation.
We could say that both issues share the root of people believing they are better or worth more than others.
We could say that both issues are systemic.
We could say that both issues share a history of those in power abusing those who are not.
We could say the masses are poorly informed on the truths behind both issues.
We can also list infinite things that are different about the two situations. Several of those differences have been highlighted in this thread. I don't get the sense anyone here feels the two are the same simply because they share certain traits. I hope I have not conveyed that message. I can seek stark differences, but that doesn't mean I do not see value in analyzing the similarities.
Sometimes watching one movement inspires another to make changes within its own system. I think we should celebrate that as humans and stop arguing about which victimhood and suffering is more impactful. I
don't feel we should discount one because it is different than another. It is all relative and it depends on a person's history, where they are in the moment and what they believe about the future.
Pain is pain and it all matters as far as I am concerned. I do not choose to only look at pain as real and worthy of my time if it follows one certain path. I have room in my heart for everyone. All stories are valid. All pain is real. All abuse creates pain. I have volunteered for efforts that impact my personal life the most. That doesn't mean I am blind to other suffering.
If people want to educate themselves on one movement or another and not others, that is fine by me. We need passionate people who are called to specific movements at various times. We cannot expect everyone to resonate with one specific message. Our uniqueness makes that difficult. I would rather stand with one passionate believer over a thousand disingenuous followers who chose to speak for change due to peer pressure any day. True hearts are invaluable. Every movement deserves true hearts.
We should all honor what we are which is that we all stem from the same source and that we are equal in that regard. Our only rightful place is next to each other. Beside each other. Standing hand in hand. No in front or behind. No above or below.
Compassion without forgiveness is misguided. Forgiveness without change is wasted. Change without a true change of heart isn't really change at all.
WastingAsparagus, this rant isn't directed toward you. Just some things that came to mind when you shared the opinion that abuse of the mentally ill shouldn't be compared.