We do go other places and do some things together. Like hiking, or shopping.
But, yeah. I think i agree too (although i had not thought of it on my own) that some of the comments are to keep me vulnerable and available to him.
I have known him since 2007, but we were both married for several years and had no contact so, its difficult to know how someone has changed...if they are still trustworthy etc. Etc.
Im actually ready to move forward and these comments helped me sort it out. Thank you so much to all for the responses.