Your mom probably didn’t know all the details. Plus really who listens to other people about relationships? especially to ones parents? Lol You did receive some suggestions on PC about putting wedding on hold. And I don’t blame you for not listening! It’s common to be upset with people suggesting you leave a relationship or your spouse isn’t the right choice or you have to put it on hold. You can only do it when you are ready yourself. Then we might be ready to listen to others, but we have to be ready to listen. At that point you weren’t. And it’s common