I wonder if people were making fun of themselves that they are “still” married despite being quarantined with their husbands for who knows how long. My daughter and I were talking about it the other day that there might be an increase in break ups after Covid because people spend a lot of time together and for some couples it might be an eye opening how things really are. So being “still” married might be a joke

I also have to say that people don’t usually give much thought to other people’s marriages unless it’s maybe a close family or best friends. Even though you shared with her about your situation, it’s very likely hasn’t been on her mind at all. It doesn’t mean people don’t care, they do, it’s just not on their mind at other times., people have their own lives on their minds.

I am just being realistic. Not saying you shouldn’t feel hurt. It could still feel that way.