Nagging doesn’t really work though, I guess what I meant was if it really bothered you that much you’d have two options either it would hav been a deal breaker long ago or you’ll just clean up the socks [emoji3453] so you aren’t bothered anymore.

For example, bf always leaves cabinets and drawers open about an inch for no apparent reason. Ironically his ex wife nagged him about it incessantly so he doesn’t do it at his place. I just shut the drawers after initially confirming there was no reason he left it open. It’s such a tiny thing in the grand scheme so I’m willing to tolerate it.

Does that make sense?