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Default Jun 22, 2020 at 05:55 PM
 
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Originally Posted by guy1111 View Post
I keep fantasizing that we go to couples therapy and I open up and the therapist mediates so she can't get mad at me. Then I get a chance to share all that she is putring me through and the therapist makes her listen and acknowledge her behavior.

Then I keep telling myself not to get my hopes up. Otherwise I will build a case against her in my head and drive myself crazy.

Thanks for validating my feelings. It's nice. [emoji847]
That's IF you have a good therapist. One who makes your wife acknowledge and recognize what she's doing with her behaviors. But then, your wife also has to own up to those behaviors, which to date, she has been unwilling to do.

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