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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme
Summer, this T has invested deeply in your life, in helping you live. This happened with my T. He gradually loosened his boundaries for me, until he didnt recognize himself as a T. My heart is broken.
I worry for you he will go too far for himself, & there will be backlash when he is a good T for you & you need him.
i think sometimes t's sincerely want to heal, and they end up giving too much.
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This actually sounds like it could be what’s happening, but in all other ways he holds boundaries firmly? And nothing inappropriate has come from what he’s shared with me, so I’m not sure how to feel. I’ve also still been able to talk to him about trauma and other sensitive things lately and not feel weird about it. If he was doing something wrong, wouldn’t I feel unsafe talking about sexual trauma with him? I’m so confused.