Dear T,
H was cursing at D again tonight. For once, D came to me for comfort. She said that he's mad at her. I told her that even though he's mad at her, he still loves her. That I can be mad and still love her. I think it seemed to help? But at least she sat in my lap and let me hug her. I know she's struggling--tomorrow is her last day of school, her last day of meeting virtually with the special educator she loves for the school year. I'm trying to cut her a bit of slack. But H doesn't. Wish I could talk to you tomorrow. I mean, I imagine I could ask if you have any openings, but then I'd need to figure out timing with H, and...then if he's here, even with the white noise outside the door, I'd still feel self-conscious, I think. I'm just trying to hold on to your validating of me today regarding H. That I'm not overreacting. That you understand why I'm bothered by it. How it's not OK. But, I don't know how to deal with it from here?

Love you,
LT