Thank you for this. I am not sure I recently found new gifts and strengths...but maybe I experienced fresh gratitude. For instance, I have very particular taste in music so it is nice to listen to whatever music I want without having to consider someone else. My ex always dominated the musical environment. Since my divorce I have created a vast collection of music...none of the ex's musical selections are represented!

I am vegetarian so am grateful I don't have to cook meat for someone else.

I am also very attached to news radio.

So I am grateful for these small pleasures.