He has to work though.....he can’t not work...he doesn’t value work above you, he’s just trying to survive and make sure you survive too. Without him working you couldn’t be independent, living in your cool apartment.


In addition, it’s not his job to address your mental health, you have a team of professionals that are better suited to that. It’s like when I get the flu or something, I don’t expect bf to cure my flu....maybe he’ll bring me groceries but that’s the extent of it.