Wow. Ignorance of some people...

Sure we don’t choose family and sadly some people end up with racist parents. But we do choose what we are willing to tolerate.

Your husband is an angel for tolerating this for so long. I see now it’s the same husband that wanted to separate from you and moved to a different area to live by himself. I don’t blame him now. I see that this situation likely contributed to his choice to move away. I’d want to be as far away from this as possible if it was me.

I am sorry your husband had to endure this for so long. I hope he finds peace in his new location.