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Originally Posted by Have Hope
He NEVER picks fights before seeing HIS friends. NEVER. And yes, the pattern speaks to something around my family and his family for that matter. I think both stress him out. And I don't think he is very comfortable around my family in particular. So yeah, I think he does this on purpose.
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Sorry I am sure he does it on purpose. Deliberately or subconsciously but the goal is to get out of it. Would be much better if he just said he didn’t feel like going
There was more than one time when I faked illness trying to get out of visiting people or lied that I had to work late etc didn’t lie to my spouse but surely lied to those people I didn’t want to visit.