Thread: Questioning my Marriage, Thinking of Divorce and I'm Falling Apart
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Old Jun 23, 2020, 12:46 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Sorry I am sure he does it on purpose. Deliberately or subconsciously but the goal is to get out of it. Would be much better if he just said he didn’t feel like going

There was more than one time when I faked illness trying to get out of visiting people or lied that I had to work late etc didn’t lie to my spouse but surely lied to those people I didn’t want to visit.
Yeah, and that makes me angry to even think about. He could be a LOT more mature about it, that's for sure.

I've lied too, but not to my spouse in that way in order to get out of something.
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