If you're no longer living with him and you're afraid of him, block him. I agree with every advice given so far. I'd rather be afraid of being alone than be afraid of my fiance. Pick the lesser of two evils.. and in your situation, be "afraid of being alone". Continue with therapy. Once you marry him and have children, it'll get worse. Your kids will be afraid with you. Leave for their sake, even though they're not even born yet.. xo