Thread: I'm in an abusive marriage and I cannot leave him for a year - need help coping
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Old Jun 23, 2020, 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I understand. Totally. But it’s yet another red flag. You should be able to speak up without fear of a fight.
I SHOULD, yes. But there is fear of a fight for certain. And he makes it that way. It's about intimidation, and he does intimidate me from speaking up ALL the time. Not always, but sometimes I do not.
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