I don’t even know where to start...I feel like a fool and a real idiot! So I’ve been seeing this guy off and on but mostly it’s been on. Anyways, we spent the winter holidays together and even valentines Day. Then mid way into the quarantine we started spending significant amount of time together. I would come over practically every Saturday, he would buy us food and drinks and Saturday before last we went out to eat, had a nice evening together. My birthday is coming up so I asked if he wanted to do something and his words were “we will do something nice” he called me earlier and when I brought my birthday up he says “happy birthday in advance” then said he didn’t want to commit to anything right now but we would basically see how it goes in regards to us having any type of plan on my birthday. He is aware how much my birthday means to me, but seems he enjoyed the ego boost and now it’s summer so he no longer has any use for me. He is what I would call emotionally unavailable. Every time we get close and I start to feel close to him he pulls back. I’m not begging anyone for attention. His loss-another mans gain. Grass isn’t always greener on the other side as he may think. I am going to make other plans maybe even get a date..I don’t need him doing me any favors. I’m heartbroken but I should have known