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Originally Posted by SummerTime12
Oh I definitely don’t believe he’s fixated on me or anything. I think it’s more or less he enjoys me as a client and also finds me attractive. I’m confused by the last part though, are you saying he might be making these thoughts up just to see how I react, and not actually feel the way he’s telling me?
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Um - you know the 80/20 rule? Im saying, it may be 20 pct how he feels, but 80 pct his REASON for telling you IS in YOUR best interest, towards your therapy. Thats how i worked with my t. I USED any attraction i felt towards him in the service of my therapy.
My motto was, like what happens in vegas, stays in vegas? Only in therapy! It stays in the therapy room. It brings subconscious stuff out. You dont bring the Chippendales home with you. But maybe you learn something about yourself.