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Old Jun 23, 2020, 11:44 PM
Anandi Anandi is offline
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Member Since: Jun 2020
Location: Hong Kong
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
Ok so you have just been dating and have no commitment yet. Not living with him right?

You can work on distancing from him. What he is sharing is concerning. He should be getting help for these thoughts he has been having. You can’t really help him with that and should not be expected to do so.
We are dating seriously and have discussed marriages not as an if, but as when. As Christians, we don't live together before marriage. (Some modern Christians don't stick to this, but my bf and I have).
And yes, yesterday when I talked to him over the phone I told him he needed to get help. He was surprised but did not resist. I am waiting on follow through though. He can be slow with follow through in general.
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Anonymous49105, Bill3, Open Eyes