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Originally Posted by winter4me
Trust your feelings.
I think if you are scared, that is enough.
If he has concerns about his thoughts and inclinations you certainly should. This is something that requires intervention beyond prayers---he really needs to have someone skilled to work on these issues with him.
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Totally agree. He was surprised yesterday that I was upset. And that I suggested therapy - at least getting assessed by a professional. Because of my work as a prayer minister (prayer-based therapist), he also thought I would be able to just know. He now knows: 1. I am not trained to evaluate risk in terms of homicidal ideation, 2. Even if I was, my feelings for him make me the wrong person for the job.
He's agreed to see a therapist. I am hoping he will follow through ASAP.