Hello, thank you , I will read what you have said .

Also MsLady I am male, I think the sexuality thing you said might be it yes. I do get the problem with other girls as well when it happens but it is much worse with my sister, when I see it on another girl it is only once and I am able to look at them after a bit of time, but with my sister, it falls down again.

So I should tell her it is still making me nervous and I will tap my shoulder when I am panicking?
I already do something like this with her, if someone is picking on me she told me to send her a message on her phone and she will tell them off, or get me away from them.