Roxanne I know it hurts. But here's one of my experiences with these types of guys. His name is Jeff. On NYE, he didn't want to go out, even though he'd already agreed to go with me to meet a good friend and her husband at the local bar. Finally, I got him to leave his apartment and we went there. But the ENTIRE TIME he was texting his female coworker underneath our table. I found out it was her, when I asked him, "Who are you texting? Please put your phone away, Jeff. Let's have a good time, ok?" Later, he went to bed and I snooped on his phone and found out he'd been sleeping with his female coworker AND ME at the same time for the year we were together. I confronted him immediately, and his response, "Well, I guess you can leave now." That was IT! "I guess you can leave now." So, I left. I have many stories like Jeff. Did I grieve that year lost from my life? Yes. Did I overanalyze my behavior wondering what I did wrong? Yes. But then I found a therapist and realized, nope, it wasn't my fault. Jeff just didn't want to commit to me, so he stayed with his coworker while he dated me; cheating on her and I at the same time. Do you think I wanted to get back together with Jeff? No way in hell. I deserved better and although it took me time to realize that after NYE, I did.

Please do not waste another thought or brainwave on that guy. He's just not worth it.