My dad still uses sarcasm and sleighted jokes towards my mom. I didn't understand it as a kid but now I see it and it makes me sad for her.

I am still sometimes sarcastic with my guy friends at work. We like to rib eachother. I realized early on as an adult that women in general do not like sarcasm or little jabs.

I see here that those things can hurt a person and leave a lasting mark.