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Originally Posted by winter4me
Trust your feelings.
I think if you are scared, that is enough.
If he has concerns about his thoughts and inclinations you certainly should. This is something that requires intervention beyond prayers---he really needs to have someone skilled to work on these issues with him.
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Originally Posted by LonelyWithYou
That fact that he was in a gang and his past abuse does make him dangerous but he also could be really trying to better himself. Go with your gut feeling in this situation. Have you talked to him about this and the way you're feeling? Why does he feel like he'll end up a serial killer is he really that angry at someone. Who would he want to kill and why? You need to find out those questions. Honestly if someone I was dating told me that I'd be really freaked out because I would not want to be with someone who wants to hurt other people.
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Thanks, this is really helpful. I have had one conversation about my feelings on this. And these are important questions.
Before we had talked at length on forgiveness and he acted like he didn't understand people that didn't forgive others and that it came easily for him. And it really has felt like he can "switch off" negative emotions. He's seldom obviously upset about anything for long. It was something I both envied about him and also worried about - like how much has he supressed?