I'm just speaking from personal experience. But note that I am a 65 year old and maybe behind the times. Sorry to confuse you. I just was thinking it would be easier to identify with the race one looks most like--but it's certainly not a requirement, for goodness sake.
I think we will see more mixed race children over time, now that different race marriages and relationships are more accepted.
Okay, this old relic is moving on.......