I finally got to the place where I just plain got angry, told him what I thought was going on, and that I wasn't going to take the angry words, road rage, etc. I have been reading books, looking at the symptoms on Mayo Clinic sight, etc. He is too stubborn to tell his doctor what is wrong, and I guess lowering testosterone levels can play a big part in this, same as our hormone changes during menopause. A good friend of his since grade school days and a very kind man, came to talk to him on Sunday afternoon for a few hours, and seemed to get through to him some. Gee, this has been two years, and I am growing tired of it now. If he doesn't come out of this soon, I am going to my sisters' in Wisconsin for a couple of weeks. He can just be alone, which he hates, and figure it out. I don't really care at this point. I just want my husband back.