Im not sure I would tell anyone .Been with my wife over 20 years but when I got very very sick with my bipolar she pushed me away even though I was always there for her one CYS came in and made me move away from my kids they said I was to sick to be around them and she just let it happen .I moved in with my friend she happens to be bipolar to and it was a nice feeling have someone who understood me when know one else did I was kind of being pulled between the both of them .I know what you are thinking I wanted my cake and to eat it to.But it wasn't like that I stopped any sex with both of them for a year i didn't want it to cloud my judgment .I went back to my wife but still she treats me different now .she makes me feel not whole .

If I had to tell you anything its not to tell know one its the first thing they use against .People think because we have bipolar that makes us weak and not trustworthy. As you can tell im little bitter but live and learn.