I'm not confident he's been where he says he's been at all times.

..he was so painfully shy around them, they wouldn't be able to guage his character.

But there are many times where he says what he did was boring. Or he just wants to pray.

Our time is very controlled.. He gives me exactly 30 minutes per phone call. 15 to talk about life, 15 to pray together.

I stopped initiating phone calls ages ago because his lack of responsiveness stressed me out.

We have exactly one date a week. It was 6 hours, but over the last 6 months has dropped to 3. He has changed the day of the date 3 times in the last year, due to his work schedule.