(((((((((((((((Cthomas))))))))))))))))))))
I am sorry you are going through such a hard time right now.
When my family members fight I always explain to all parties that it is not my fight and I try to stay in contact with everybody.
It's so hard to lose a pet, I wish I could say something to make you feel better but I'm not sure those kind of words exist.
It was very kind of you to listen to your friend even though it was bringing issues up for you.