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Originally Posted by Anandi
He had no empathy for my fear and made no attempts to calm me.
Instead he turned very critical of areas that he feels I have not measured up as a girlfriend.
He also told me that he has no feelings for me and never had. And that the best I could hope for was to deem me as someone important in his life.
When I asked if he was breaking up with me, he said he wasn't sure and he wanted time to think about it. I asked how he would want a cooling down period to look like. He also didn't know and said he would let me know today.
But as soon as we hung up, I had clarity. I don't need any cooling down. My opinion hasn't changed. This relationship is over. I was in love with a man who doesn't exist.
I am ready to end this.
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Wow. I'm sorry this happened to you! I'm also glad because he doesn't sound like a good person for you at all. Hopefully it'll be easier for you to cut your losses now.. no more wondering.. no more wasted time being controlled.
I'm not sure what you mean about the best you could hope for (in bold).
Of course he'll turn it on you. You're not the problem though so let all that roll off your back and don't take a moment worrying about it. He's clearly struggling with a lot about himself.
I'm glad you have that clarity. Still.. a crappy situation to be in. Big hugs to you!