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Originally Posted by IceCreamKid
I hope what I am about to tell you helps. A good love relationship is not a home improvement project. True love is loving someone as the person actually is. This is not the man for you--and you are not the woman for this man. Period. Right now, today tell your clinician friend that you are separating yourself from this man and make sure she has all the particulars on him--his address, his physical description, etc. He sounds dangerous and he may very well react very poorly to your choosing to stop interacting with him. Then, stop interacting with this man. Stand firm when you tell him that you two are not suited for each other--no more phone calls, no more meetings.
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I agree with your first two statements.
Many people find themselves in bad relationships, or get into a relationship all for the wrong reasons and discover it's wrong. Most people just want to be loved and to find a loving relationship. There's nothing wrong with that. People are just trying to figure things out for themselves, and they want support while they work it out for themselves. It's hard to find a good and healthy relationship it seems, and that becomes evident by all the posts and threads about relationships.