My family...idk. I’m sick of asking my sister to call him to check on him. My mom says my sister is a very busy person. I cringe now when people say they are “busy”. Unless they really are. I’ve been told by people that they are busy for their reasoning about why they haven’t called or texted in weeks or months. I just don’t believe some people to be that busy that they can’t call or text someone for 15 min or less.

I hate to say this but I don’t believe my sister in that way. I rarely hear from her. Maybe a couple times a month. I text her and all she replies with is a thumbs up or a heart usually. My mom says she’s a very busy person with her business and child. Someone isn’t that busy tho that they can’t make a phone call at least every 2 weeks, especially to their parent. Especially if their parent isn’t doing well.

I’m the only one of my dads kids that call him everyday. Never been one to talk bad about my sister but this irks me. Rubs me the wrong way. It’s all about priorities. And if my sis can get on a plane to go visit her husbands family for a week every month, she surely can call her dad for 15 min every couple weeks at the least. Even my mom has been mad at her for not calling her.

It’s priorities and hers is not with her own family. My mom can’t accept that. I can for the most part. I haven’t called my mom in like 5 days. That’s for other reasons. All my sis has been doing is sending him obscure vitamins. Which he’s not interested in but won’t say it. Just sending vitamins every once and awhile isn’t gonna cut it.

*Sorry this is so long. There’s specific things I never talk about here or with anyone, but for the reason that i feel it isn’t important but subconsciously i know it is. For me, at least.*

Even when I was working and doing all the stuff I was before March, I made it a priority to keep in touch with my parents. It’s about priorities.