So this weekend was pre-planned for months, its her dads long weekend so we always went to london to see them, however due to the seperation i decided not to go as it would have been too awkward,

She had intentionally decided to use this as a catalyst to her 'leaving note' calmly texting me pictures of my children enjoying time in the pool,

She works but is currently on maternity pay, due to her outstanding debts im unsure how shes paying for the divorce as she has denied the ability of collecting some or all of the charges from me,

She will be moving 200 miles away to be closer to her family, and has a very warped idea of what she is entitled to, what shell actually recieve and how to get it,

On the proviso that shes planned this for months, she should already have plans in place and already started paperwork for social housing/universal credit to ensure she lands on her feet,

My children will be treated like Queens, all im taking from the house is the TV and my own stuff, i cant take anything else without my children suffering because they dont have anything,

I have no financial burden to my wife, she has her own debt, that is her decision,

I dont give her money i need to be clear on that, she works, but her money pays for household food childrens clothes activities and the odd takeaway,

I pay for all of the household bills/fuel/Car etc.

My gambling never led me to debt, i never used my overdraft and rarelt used my wages for it, i played with winnings only.