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Originally Posted by divine1966
I am glad you made up but it made me wonder why was it important for you to be in this group now if you are planning a divorce? Actually even if you don’t want to divorce. And who mentioned divorce in a fight? If there are no plans to divorce, I really don’t understand why divorce is being brought up every time. Is it him bringing it up? You say why I am not in group and he says I think we need to get a divorce?
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I cannot really answer that. I didn't exactly WANT to be added to the group. I was only commenting that it was strange I had never been invited to his friends groups. I know it doesn't make much sense.
He asked if I want to be married to him anymore, so in the midst of fighting, eventually I blurted out that I don't and I took off my rings.
Then he backed down from everything.
Divorce is brought up every time we fight because one of us gets SO upset and frustrated that divorce is mentioned. I cannot explain it.
I have never had such unhealthy communications with someone.