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Old Jun 27, 2020, 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
^ I feel like that, too. Especially for those of us who were not raised to handle emotions in a healthy way/ who had parents who certainly did not console us when we had those emotions and rather were callous. Why do the therapists act so callous? That’s how I interpreted it. If they had even explained it’s a therapy technique where they are intentionally neutral, I’d have at least understood. Though I wanted some compassion and validation or at least some acknowledgement that I am a human being.

If we feel very sad, we cry. It is a normal, healthy emotion.
Yeah I totally get what you mean. It can sometimes feel very invalidating when my T does not acknowledge that I am upset and just continueS like nothing is happening. It’s not like I am wanting her to suddenly throw her arms around me and pat me on the head saying ‘there there’ I just want her to recognise that I’m in pain and that can see that and she cares that I’m hurting.
Thanks for this!
TishaBuv