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Old Jun 27, 2020, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
I haven’t said much in a while because of some similarities.

You are a smart, professional. Why didn’t you think to ask the finance person if he could get the car without your co-signing? I know you are working with a therapist. There are many things like this that would be valuable for you to take a good, hard look at.
@TishaBuv, i understand.

But the issue over the car lease doesn’t matter now. What’s done is done. I felt pushed into it by him. You asking me this now only makes me feel MORE STUPID. It was a mistake that I cannot fix or change. So what’s the point of asking me such a question except to make me feel even worse about it???

Not to mention, he works in the automotive industry so I trusted that he needed a co signer, which is what he told me.

Please don’t make me feel worse.
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Last edited by Have Hope; Jun 27, 2020 at 10:38 AM.
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