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Originally Posted by Motts
Listen to your daughter's therapist. Do not force your daughter to spend time with you. By doing that, you take away your daughter's power to choose.
As her father, you don't want her to think you are a controlling, abusive father because you force her to see you when you want to see her.
While it is hard to be patient, that's what you need to do. Be patient. Let your daughter have the power and control to decide WHEN she wants to spend time with you. Give her the respect she deserves, as her father.
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Of course, it's not a matter of tensing the rope to an extreme but it would also be interesting to know more details. What if the kid is rejecting his father because she's being said his father is guilty of the separation.
What is until now, his wife played the main role in her daughter's life because he had other circumstances and stuff to cope with.
You can as a father still bounding laces with your kid without forcing her too much. She's a little kid and she will proud to know that his father made the impossible to be in her life.