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Originally Posted by Have Hope
@ TishaBuv, i understand.
But the issue over the car lease doesn’t matter now. What’s done is done. I felt pushed into it by him. You asking me this now only makes me feel MORE STUPID. It was a mistake that I cannot fix or change. So what’s the point of asking me such a question except to make me feel even worse about it???
Not to mention, he works in the automotive industry so I trusted that he needed a co signer, which is what he told me.
Please don’t make me feel worse. |
I didn’t mention it to say you are stupid. I said you are NOT stupid. Whether or not this marriage ends now, later, or doesn’t, I said there are many things to dig deep into with your therapist about this whole thing.
It might be helpful to print out these threads and highlight the parts you want to discuss. Some things may be a pattern for ways you have handled things before in your life and choices you have made that turned out to be bad for you.