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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I didn’t mention it to say you are stupid. I said you are NOT stupid. Whether or not this marriage ends now, later, or doesn’t, I said there are many things to dig deep into with your therapist about this whole thing. 
It might be helpful to print out these threads and highlight the parts you want to discuss. Some things may be a pattern for ways you have handled things before in your life and choices you have made that turned out to be bad for you. |
Tisha, everything has been bad for me. I haven't had a healthy relationship in years. I keep attracting the same toxic types of people.. either abusers or narcissists or both. I don't trust myself to not attract these types in the future, therefore, I am done with all relationships after this. I have been in therapy ALL of my adult life!!!! We're talking on and off for 30 years. And NO ONE has been able to help me to date!!!! NO ONE. Therapists SUCK. They are of NO help to me. So screw it. I am royally f-ed up and cannot change the pattern, clearly.
And I though I was getting better at it before I met my husband. But apparently not.