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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I didn’t mention it to say you are stupid. I said you are NOT stupid. Whether or not this marriage ends now, later, or doesn’t, I said there are many things to dig deep into with your therapist about this whole thing. 
It might be helpful to print out these threads and highlight the parts you want to discuss. Some things may be a pattern for ways you have handled things before in your life and choices you have made that turned out to be bad for you. |
Also, right now is NOT the time for me to delve into this issue in therapy. I am trying to problem solve my toxic marriage right now, and I am trying to survive it while I strategize and plan to exit. That's what I am focusing on. Once I leave him, then perhaps I can delve into my history and analyze it to death. But honestly, I don't wish to, I think it's a total waste of time, I have a broken "picker" as my friend likes to call it, and that's all there is to it. End of story. I am broken.