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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I didn’t mention it to say you are stupid. I said you are NOT stupid. Whether or not this marriage ends now, later, or doesn’t, I said there are many things to dig deep into with your therapist about this whole thing. 
It might be helpful to print out these threads and highlight the parts you want to discuss. Some things may be a pattern for ways you have handled things before in your life and choices you have made that turned out to be bad for you. |
@ TishaBuv, one last point... I know you did say I am smart, but your question to me about the car lease seriously triggered me. I had already stated it was a mistake and stupid of me to co-sign, so to ask why I didn't think of such and such questions to ask after the fact only felt like my mistake was being rubbed more in my face. That's how it felt. I already feel stupid.
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Last edited by Have Hope; Jun 27, 2020 at 03:27 PM.
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