This is good for me to read - thank you for sharing it. I have been struggling with this issue for many years. While my husband has never cheated, he goes through phases of being very resistant to treatment, and now is one of them. I have issued many ultimatums to get him into treatment, and need to get up the gumption to do it again. It is looking like it needs to be done again, but it is a very draining process. It helps knowing that someone else has some concrete steps they are following.

Good luck with it all - I'll be following your posts to see how it goes.