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Old Jun 28, 2020, 07:41 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
I’m sorry my words came out wrong. I thought it was one important event between you and your h to look at how and why you were pushed into doing something that you maybe didn’t have to and shouldn’t have done. You weren’t fully and maybe not truthfully informed about the lease. I’m sincerely just trying to help.

I know the expression ‘broken picker’ lol. It’s unfortunate therapy never helped. I have not had good experiences with it either, but am now hopeful with new therapists. Plus, I am trying to learn and care for myself.

I’m sorry you are having this bad issue.
Hey Tisha. Thank you. Hugs.

I understand... I guess I just can’t think about that too much right now. I’m very down on myself for having fallen for an abuser. He can be very convincing and I suppose I’m easily persuaded even when I don’t want to do something. I felt obligated to cosign as his wife. I don’t feel good about myself right now.

And yeah therapy has not been very helpful to me.

I hope you like your new therapist and find it helpful. I’m just getting to know my own new therapist now.
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Last edited by Have Hope; Jun 28, 2020 at 07:59 AM.
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