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Originally Posted by divine1966
You are very forgiving and extremely nice. It can’t be easy to be lovey dovey after being yelled, at cussed at, and called names. How does it work? You said you are out if he yells one more time so what’s your plan now after several more fights occurred within few weeks? Are you staying and working on your marriage or are you one foot out and just buying time? I don’t think you can do both with good outcome.
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I’m holding back. I’m not telling him I love him and I’m not being lovey dovey with him. It’s very hard to. Bounce back after such a fight. He’s the one being lovey dovey.
Yes I did say it’s over if he yells again. I tried to end things yesterday by taking off my rings and declaring I no longer wanted to be married. He almost was going to move to Florida and stick me with everything. I backed down. I’m not prepared. So yes I’m biding my time, I’m trying to prepare and I want this to be over and done with. Right now I’m not sure how to proceed except to continue applying for higher paying jobs, get all my ducks in a row and then leave him, however that falls in place.