I was never touched by my father and neither was my sister. Asexuality is just my sexual orientation just like I'm attracted to both males and females. I had just started with that councillor and was just rambling about my life when I brought it up and her first words were which doctor had diagnosed me and if I was medicated for it.

The comment from the councillor about the incest I actually don't remember what had lead up to it, that was five years ago and I was in uni across the country. I was really badly homesick, and concerned about my mom and sister because my sister was going through a rough time with her mental illness.