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Originally Posted by divine1966
I think it’s concerning that 47 year old man must go live with his parents if he splits from his wife. What do people do who don’t have parents or have parents who aren’t willing to help. I didn’t live with my parents a day in my life after age 19. And my husbands parents died young. And we had all kind of rough patches and bad periods in life barely scrapping by before meeting each other.
Why does this man still rely on women and parents to carry him through life and he is nearing 50. Why is he choosing to live in expensive areas and neighborhoods that he can’t afford to live on his own, work jobs that don’t pay, spend money on crap like eating out every day, asks his wife to buy things all the time etc etc
It’s rhetorical question. No need to answer. But this is just mind boggling to me. What kind of man lives like this being not self sufficient? Ive met ton of men in my life. I can’t say I met any who live this way nearing 50.
And now you worry you’ll be stuck paying for his car??? He’d refuse to pay for his own car? What kind of man does that? In addition to constantly blowing up he isn’t self sufficient in his age... I can’t even
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I agree with you. And this I learned much more so as time went on.
His solution is to go live with his parents. I could care less. In fact, it's far better for me IF he does move out of state, then I don't have to run into him all the time with our shared social scene. I would in fact prefer this. Very much so.
But I agree. He is NOT self sufficient. And he relies on everyone else to carry him financially, including me, and I am freaking fed up with it and am sooo done.