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Old Jun 29, 2020, 09:00 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Of course temporary set backs are understandable and no crime in living with families. It just doesn’t sound like he was ever self sufficient and is always looking for easy ways out. I don’t think it matters if he’ll go live with parents or look for a new person to support him. I am just saying his way of life seems to be more of a very young person or a teen, not a grown man, it’s not thought through. Not a desirable quality
He IS a child, in every way. He behaves like one. He is a man-child who refused to grow up and take responsibility for himself. He throws tantrums and yells when I ask him simple questions. Those questions should only inspire ADULT-LIKE conversation or disagreement, but not full-blown fights where we swear at one another and call each other nasty things and names.

I am SO tired of him. I am now scheming on how to get him to move to Florida, and SOON. As soon as possible. He paid July's rent already, so he actually paid to be here for the whole of this month, if he wants to be.

But since he has mentioned if things break up between us that he'll move to Florida, I now want to push him and force him to do so.
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