Hi Laurielrocks,

We share similar experiences. I don't understand why people behave this way. My stbx took and took and abused and then decides to waltz off into the sunset. I suspect it is either his sister or an other women planting these ideas and behaviors in a fertile field. I am very saddened by the whole thing and don't feel that I have a safe place to grieve the end of the future and dreams I had been working toward.