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Perna said:
I do wonder at your "love" for her, based on her obvious callus behavior toward you? That she does nothing for herself or the household, I don't understand why you "care" anymore as she obviously doesn't.

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As a woman who had a total mental break down ten years ago and attempted suicide three different times during this difficult period in time..... I cannot see how one can say that his wife does not care for her husband just because she is struggling (and hard at that)....... please keep in mine that many mentally ill people need help from professionally and often than not they cannot do it on their own - seek the help they need.