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Originally Posted by bpcyclist
Some days are just a huge challenge and this is one of those for you, BirdDancer. i am so sorry. Will add your pdoc to my rapidly expanding prayer list right now. Maybe he just had to go back to the hospital or something, A little backslide maybe. Let's hope so. Or a family memeber crisis. Who knows? Try to remain as calm as you can. I know how much he means to you. And I know if anything happened to my pdoc I would just lose my entire remaining and very small mind. So, I get it. I do. But let's just wait until there is more information. This could be any of a million options here. Hang in there. Take an extra Seroquel XR if you need to maybe, it migh thelp you a bit with this. Just try to make it through this day, as best you can.
As for your dad, I forgot if they are refusing to allow outside MDs into that facility. Is that the case? Even if deemed medcially required? That would seem odd to me. Maybe that neurologist could go to him? It is medically necessary, quite obviously, to sort all this out. Right?
Hugs and strength and huge love. Just get through the day and then, see what you are dealing with.
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Thanks, bpcyclist! And I should have taken the extra Seroquel XR. Instead, I ate two raspberry oatmeal bars. Big ones from the bakery!
The thing that makes all of this hard is that if he did go away on vacation, forgetting me yesterday, I might not hear much or anything from him until August. That's such a long time to possibly be kept hanging. If he did have an emergency, I think he likely will contact me/others at some point before then. I do NOT want to be the kind of patient that bugs him, unnecessarily. I don't want this to be about me, when the support should be for him. Perhaps my support for him should be to leave him alone.
I don't think that as an initial meeting the neurologist would travel to his assisted living. I could ask my sister to ask them. I doubt they would.
Big hugs to you as well, my friend
